Throughout The Waves,
the
characters struggle to
define themselves, which they do through their relationships with
others.
Bernard articulates this struggle most clearly. He realizes that who he
is
depends on who surrounds him—his words and thoughts change in relation
to
his companions. Bernard sees the mind and the self as fluid, with
permeable
boundaries that enable people to “flow” into one another and
essentially
create one another. Bernard’s understanding of reality connects to this
idea
of “flow”: he sees reality as a product of consciousness. He rejects
the
idea of an “outer” world of unchanging objects and an “inner” world of
the
mind and ideas. Rather, our minds are part of the world, and vice
versa. For
Bernard, if there were no minds to perceive the world and bring it into
being, the world would be empty. He applies this idea to the flower on
the
table during the first dinner party. Since seven people perceive the
flower
at once, it is a “seven-sided flower.” Later, after Percival’s death,
Bernard thinks that reality itself is diminished by the loss of a
consciousness—the flower is now only “six-sided.”All the characters
grapple with self-definition in different ways.
Neville defines himself in opposition to society’s conventions and
insincerity and tries to reduce his relationships to intense, pure
devotion.
Louis is deeply concerned with what others think and tries, with
varying
success, to shed his provincial self and to create a new, “insider”
self.
Jinny has a stronger sense of self than the others, and she happily
takes
her place in London’s social world. However, the physical self is for
her
the most real self, and all interaction is essentially physical. For
Susan,
a sense of self is rooted in a sense of place as well as in her
relations
with others, and she submerges her personal identity within the larger
“self” of family and nature. Rhoda’s sense of self is the most fragile
and
oppressive. Unlike Jinny, who sees herself as all body, Rhoda feels
phantomlike, unable to interact with others without losing all
substance. She feels an intolerable pressure from contact with
others, which, for Bernard, is the essence of selfhood. In the end,
Bernard,
who has always worked to overcome the false boundaries we create
between
selves, has the last word.